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Lisa wasn’t there

An award ceremony, old teammates, my father’s fragile heart — and the reminder that grief is the price we pay for loving people.

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Daniel P. Finney
Mar 11, 2026
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Lisa wasn’t there.

Her husband, Ted; their two children, Hitch and Libby; her mom, Lynn; and brother, Blaine, stood together on the floor of Casey’s Center in Des Moines.

The Iowa Girls High School Athletic Union honored my friend Lisa Brinkmeyer Van Deventer with a First Lady Award — the highest honor the association bestows.

It came during halftime of th…

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